Relationships, Marriage, and your Health  I was driving with a young man I'm coaching the other day-he's working hard to prepare himself for a healthy relationship.   He's responsible, he's been through a lot, and he…

When making a profit doesn't profit What Does It Profit a Man? "What does it profit a man to gain the whole world and lose his soul?" Matthew 16:26   This lesson from the Bible has…

Why doing nothing is something A friend of mine, a very successful businessman, once shared a story with me.   It was a story his father had told him, and it became the way he ran…

"Daddy, no-I can't look, it's just too awlful!"     "Daddy, no-I can't look. I can't look, Daddy," my daughter sobbed.   "Maya, you have to look," I said.   She was only four or five…

Finding "the helpers" Phillies "Karen" and Charlie Kurt examples   Finding the Helpers in a World That Feels Broken   Why I Stopped Watching the News:   I don't usually watch the news for a number…

Steriods, The Rock, and Why Shortcuts Always Come Back to Bite You I was 19, sitting on my girlfriend's bed, when my nose suddenly started bleeding like crazy. It had never happened before, but I knew…

What fighting in the 3rd grade taught me about real power   I was in third grade coming home from Cub Scouts when Mike called me the n-word for the thousandth time.   This was common…

Is President Trump gone a happy thought? Is President Trump gone a happy thought?   Last week I posted on social media:   "What's the happiest thought you can think of?"   I got some wonderful…

Cold play CEO acting normal   I wrote a blog recently about a couple who were caught having an extramarital affair on a kissing camera at a Coldplay concert.   The CEO and his coworker turned…

Take a step     One question I ask my coaching clients is:   What was your earliest memory?   It's an important question.   My earliest memory was waiting on a step for my mom…