"Daddy, no-I can't look, it's just too awlful!"     "Daddy, no-I can't look. I can't look, Daddy," my daughter sobbed.   "Maya, you have to look," I said.   She was only four or five…

Finding "the helpers" Phillies "Karen" and Charlie Kurt examples   Finding the Helpers in a World That Feels Broken   Why I Stopped Watching the News:   I don't usually watch the news for a number…

Steriods, The Rock, and Why Shortcuts Always Come Back to Bite You I was 19, sitting on my girlfriend's bed, when my nose suddenly started bleeding like crazy. It had never happened before, but I knew…

What fighting in the 3rd grade taught me about real power   I was in third grade coming home from Cub Scouts when Mike called me the n-word for the thousandth time.   This was common…

Is President Trump gone a happy thought? Is President Trump gone a happy thought?   Last week I posted on social media:   "What's the happiest thought you can think of?"   I got some wonderful…

Cold play CEO acting normal   I wrote a blog recently about a couple who were caught having an extramarital affair on a kissing camera at a Coldplay concert.   The CEO and his coworker turned…

Take a step     One question I ask my coaching clients is:   What was your earliest memory?   It's an important question.   My earliest memory was waiting on a step for my mom…

Do what you love for work   I have a confession to make.   I've never been able to keep a job I didn't love.   It's hard for me to do much if my heart…

How to do the hard things Are you having trouble getting yourself to do hard things like exercise? That's normal, but you need to do it, and I hope this story will help. He was 90…

Coldplay CEO affair I just came back from Africa, and it was a trip that changed my perspective. I think that's the gift when you travel because you come back to your life with new eyes.…