Infidelity
The Power of Space
The Power of Space My son forgot his computer this morning. He called and asked if I could bring it to him. So, I got in the car and headed to his school. On the way there, I had a thought I didn’t used to have. I created a life…
Read MoreHealthy Love Feels Strange to Unhealed People
Healthy Love Feels Strange To Unhealed People I was watching an interview with a celebrity who had left her marriage. She talked about dating a “nice guy” afterward but said it didn’t work out because that’s not what she needed. She said she needed chaos, and that’s why she was attracted to the…
Read MoreHe Missed His Chance to be His Son’s Hero
He Missed His Chance to be His Son’s Hero He came to see me because he had gotten into trouble, and his parents had heard that I coach and connect well with young people. Unfortunately, I can’t help everyone. It was hard to reach him. He wouldn’t open his heart. …
Read MoreThe Trap of Over giving in Relationships
The Trap of Over Giving in Relationships When I was younger, I thought no woman would ever leave me. I mean… why would they? I’d grocery shop, cook, clean, provide—be the perfect boyfriend, the perfect husband. Sounds great, right? Wrong. It’s great… if you’re the other person. But that’s…
Read MoreWhat Divorce Taught Me About Letting Go
What Divorce Taught Me About Letting Go A lot of people know how to begin things… but do they know how to end them? When we start a career or a new relationship, we’re filled with enthusiasm and excitement. .There’s hope. There’s energy. There’s possibility. But how often do we consider the ending?…
Read MoreWhat Love Makes Possible
What Love Makes Possible Last week I wrote about two women I know. I didn’t choose them because they’re “nice.” I chose them because they are two of the finest women I know. The first—you’ll almost never hear her talk about herself. She’s deeply concerned for others… in a way I…
Read MoreThe Courage To Feel
The Courage To Feel She was 11 years old. It was summer, and she woke up late. She came downstairs looking for her friends, but her mom told her they had already come by. She didn’t want to wake her. So, she went out back and sat on an old sofa in…
Read MoreThe Affair That Wasn’t About Love
The Affair That Wasn’t About Love He was one of the wealthiest clients I ever worked with… and I found out he was having an affair. His health was a mess. Somewhere along the way, in building his success, he picked up a smoking habit… and a drinking habit to go with it.…
Read MoreColdplay CEO Acting Normal
Cold play CEO acting normal I wrote a blog recently about a couple who were caught having an extramarital affair on a kissing camera at a Coldplay concert. The CEO and his coworker turned quickly when the camera was on them at the concert and a lot of people shared it was their…
Read MoreInfidelity
Infidelity Infidelity I’ve had a lot of training in helping people through infidelity. It’s a cave that I would like to keep people from falling in because of the harm it causes and the length of time it takes to get out. Some people never escape the cave of infidelity and…
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