Be Grateful You Didn't Get Away With It Did you ever wonder why bad things happen to good people, and how others seem to get away with everything? What if I told you, no one gets…

From Nice to Good I was born into chaotic, violent, and neglectful circumstances.   To survive as a young boy, my nervous system did what every human nervous system does under threat.   It reached for…

A Different Way Into the New Year Every year I make goals. It's been a habit I learned years ago and have taught many people to do the same.   One of the challenges for me…

The Quiet Power of Christmas My mentor and friend will be in surgery later today.   Some of my other friends are waiting on diagnoses.   I see my kids every other week.   I'm having…

When Christmas Was Winter It was Christmas, and I was coming off what felt like the best year of my young, eight-year-old life.   My sister and I had been brought to the United States to…

A Grown-Up Example of Family Almost Laughed Away It was only the second time she was meeting her now husband's family.   At the first dinner, she sat almost speechless-watching as they asked about each other's…

How to Have Amazing Relationships The Absolute Power of Listening   He had an affair.   And came to me for coaching.   He wanted to repair his marriage.   And they hadn't been intimate for…

Why Gratitude is so Important: Thanksgiving Reflection Let me start with a question - one that stopped me in my tracks when I thought of it:   What if tomorrow morning you woke up and only…

Relationships, Marriage, and your Health  I was driving with a young man I'm coaching the other day-he's working hard to prepare himself for a healthy relationship.   He's responsible, he's been through a lot, and he…

When making a profit doesn't profit What Does It Profit a Man? "What does it profit a man to gain the whole world and lose his soul?" Matthew 16:26   This lesson from the Bible has…